Forthcoming
The book, when
it's ready.
Not My Match is being written into a hardcover memoir-in-essays — an intimate, often-funny field guide to being freshly, thoroughly, unexpectedly single again.
A memoir in parts
The essays here — and the ones still in notebooks — collected, expanded, and stitched into a longer arc.
For anyone starting over
Whether you're divorced, widowed, uncoupled, or just watching a friend go through it — you're the reader I have in mind.
Quietly, honestly
No hot takes, no ten-step programs. Just careful writing about a hard, funny, ordinary thing.
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